Let It Go!!

Again an Inspirational post and the one which we don't talk about. We all run away from this reality of life. Hate to talk and move on!

                              

We all have a past, a past which is full of love and a past which is full of negativity. Some have either of one or both but it's our choice which one to accept and move on. We all usually move on with the bitter memories, life has given us, the pain others gave us, filling us with negativity and hatred either towards those people or life. but we need to understand that neither of the hatred will let us live. WE NEED TO LET IT GO! LET GO THE PAST! Its sucks at any cost.

That sour past will make us negative. Clinging onto the past is not the solution ever! STOP THINKING about it. Even time won't heal if you don't stop thinking about it. The scares will vanish if YOU stop holding onto it. Forgive people and move on. It's the best way to live life. Hatred leads you to NO WHERE. It will just sabotage your outlook and make you hollow. You deserve to live, live a happy life. JUST LET IT GO!

For God's sake STOP making your loved one's life a hell just because you are not able to cope up with your past. ( i know that's rude, but you need to accept this even ) . The one's who care for you are worried and tensed , why? because you are tensed! Stop making there life hell, live and let live. They need happiness and peace and so do you! So, Stay Happy And Make Others Happy! :)

Regrets?

Stop blaming yourself for certain things. Maybe for those things where you weren't even wrong and even if you were, it's past, IT'S GONE, won't come back ever. Stop hurting yourself for the things that probably cannot be healed.

It has happened and is of no use now, you cannot do anything now, it has gone and lost. Let the shine come in your life, move away from the guilt of darkness, It's only going to darken your future and make you a shallow person with no feelings! Don't disturb your future just because your past was a disturbed one. LIVE LIFE HAPPILY!

Lost your love, friend or someone dear? Remember them but don't let there absence dominate you because if they were to be with you then they would have definitely been here ( Present ) at first place. They did not deserved you. You deserve someone way better than them!

Death has made you lose your near one? That's the phenomena of life which you cannot challenge nor question it so accept it and live with the beautiful memories spent with them and do not let there absence dominate you again. Life is short to live with regrets, make it beautiful with love and forgiveness because it's the most powerful medicine of every hatred in this world.

 

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Believe In Yourself

Hello My People! :D

Today's Blog post is all about Fashion. Fashion and you,

Through this post I want to Inspire all the Healthy, Chubby or fat people out there!

People have given us many names for being a plus size.

I'm one of you and cannot easily fit into my desired clothes. It's annoying but I'm beautiful in my own way and that's what matters the most. This post is not for only the lovely Ladies but for the plus size men out there. Hey! you all are pretty no matter what, gender doesn't matters. It's your purity and heart that matters!

Being fat doesn't means that you don't deserve anything and for being fat many of you might have been bullied in your school days or are being bullied for the same reason, if yes then let me tell you YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF and see wonders happening because when you believe in yourself only then the world believes in you!

I'm too a plus size and have issues wearing my favorite dress but I choose to wear what looks good on me and what I'am comfortable in! You should also do the same. After all you dress to impress yourself and not others! right?!!

Let people say whatever they want to say as it's there job! :P

There is this phrase in Hindi "log kahenge, logo ka kaam hai kehna" . In the world of hypocrisy, we too say maybe unintentionally rude to others! so just think before you speak as to you maybe a victim of something! Let things go off and don't care because the main pleasure is in doing what people think you can't! ;) xD

Fashion cannot define you at any cost. If you are slim then you look good! that's not the thing, even a healthy person can look good. I don't boast about myself but definitely I'm confident enough that "yes I'm Chubby and still I'm beautiful" , you should Donne the same attitude in you.

There are other ways to look beautiful and now everyone wears everything so why be shy about clothing? there are several actresses in our Bollywood Industry who are healthy and still have there own charm, which we now call a "curvaceous body". You all are beautiful and gorgeous just be confident in what you wear and you'll rock the world. Carry yourself gracefully with loads of confident and see the world coming towards you!

I was also bullied at some point of time and still people point out at me that I'm a "FAT" and I just tell them " yes! I'm fat, but you see I'm beautiful and I carry myself gracefully with the clothes I'm comfortable in" because that's what is ME! Being ME is the most difficult task in this world. Challenge yourself and see the results all by yourself! :)

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DREAM CATCHER'S

This post is about DREAM CATCHERS, some of you might have heard about it and some of you not and some might be having one.

The other day I was on Instagram and got this follow request from a page of  Handmade Dream Catcher's ( cannot specify the name ).

I was instantly mesmerised by them and have even ordered one. 

They are cheap and are good for your room decorative.

They can be made into any form like a keyring, wall hanging, wind chimes, earrings, etc. They were rather are so beautiful and unique. They hold there own charm. Beautifully made and a lot of efforts for sure must have gone in the creation of it.

NO! they aren't Indian, they are Native American. There lies a story behind them (Read below). After getting through the Instagram page ,I searched about it on Google ( our saviour :P ) to know more about it. ( as I'm way too inquisitive about things I don't know about). There's a lot been said and told about these beautiful and awestruck creation by man. They have there own importance and here's what I came to know about them.

DREAM CATCHER

In some Native American Cultures, Dream Catcher is an handmade object based on a willow hoop, on which is woven a loose net or web. Then the Dream Catcher is decorated with some sacred items such as feathers and beads.

HISTORY & LEGEND

Dream catchers are one of the most fascinating traditions of Native Americans. The traditional dream catcher was intended to protect the sleeping individual from negative dreams, while letting positive dreams through. The positive dreams would slip through the hole in the centre of the dream catcher, and glide down the feathers to the sleeping person below. The negative dreams would get caught up in the web, and expire when the first rays of the sun struck them.

The dream catcher has been a part of Native American culture for generations. One element of Native American dream catcher relates to the tradition of the hoop. Some Native Americans of North America held the hoop in the highest esteem, because it symbolised strength and unity. Many symbols started around the hoop, and one of these symbols is the dream catcher.

DREAM CATCHER LORE

Native Americans believe that the night air is filled with dreams both good and bad. The dream catcher when hung over or near your bed swinging freely in the air, catches the dreams as they flow by. The good dreams know how to pass through the dream catcher, slipping through the outer holes and slide down the soft feathers so gently that many times the sleeper does not know that he/she is dreaming. The bad dreams not knowing the way get tangled in the dream catcher and perish with the first light of the new day.

HOW THE DREAM CATCHER IS MADE?

Using a hoop of willow, and decorating it with findings, bits and pieces of everyday life, (feathers, arrow heads, beads, etc) the dream catcher is believed to have the power to catch all of a person’s dreams, trapping the bad ones, and letting only the good dreams pass through the dream catcher.

WHAT IS A DREAM CATCHER?

Dream catchers are arts and crafts of the Native American people. The original web dream catcher of the Ojibwa was intended to teach natural wisdom. Nature is a profound teacher. Dream catchers of twigs, sinew, and feathers have been woven since ancient times by Ojibwa people. They were woven by the grandfathers and grandmothers for newborn children and hung above the cradle board to give the infants peaceful, beautiful dreams. The night air is filled with dreams. Good dreams are clear and know the way to the dreamer, descending through the feathers. The slightest movement of the feathers indicated the passage of yet another beautiful dream. Bad dreams, however, are confused and confusing. They cannot find their way through the web and are trapped there until the sun rises and evaporates them like the morning dew.

Originally the Native American dream catcher was woven on twigs of the red willow using thread from the stalk of the stinging nettle. The red willow and twigs from other trees of the willow family, as well as red twig dogwood can be found in many parts of the United States. These twigs are gathered fresh and dried in a circle or pulled into a spiral shape depending upon their intended use. They used natural feathers and semi-precious gemstone, one gemstone to each web because there is only one creator in the web of life.

DREAM CATCHER RITUAL CEREMONY

There are many ways to celebrate a dream catcher. It is suggested that you initiate your dream catcher through a ritual ceremony. Rituals have great meaning and can put your mind and thoughts into action. Your dream catcher can become one with your feelings and perform the way you want it to.

Once you have decided where to hang your dream catcher, it is time to perform the ceremony that will enable it to work properly in your home or living space.

It is suggested that for the ceremony sage is lit and its smoke is used to cleanse the house. With the sage letting out its smoke, offer up a prayer for your dream catcher and what you wish for it to bless your home. Become one with the dream catcher and allow yourself to visualise what the dream catcher is there to protect. End your ceremony by thanking your dream catcher and feel it ready to bless your home.

You are ready to place your dream catcher in the chose spot to hang over and protect your home, family, or thoughts. You may choose to celebrate your dream catcher in this way or through other ways by your own choosing. There is an ancient ritual of the dream catcher called, Smudging. This is a powerful way to initiate and bless your dream catcher. However you choose to perform your ceremony of hanging a dream catcher, make sure you are one with it so it may work the best for you.

MY TAKE ON DREAM CATCHER's:

I believe one should be an owner of a Dream Catcher. They are a charm. The positivity they bring is something every one of us need. I’m not asking to be pessimist or believe in super natural powers but just a deviation from pessimism. They are something that can fresh in our mood because they are so beautiful and loving. Gives us the vibes of being optimist and fun loving. In today’s fast forward world where lives have lost in between competition, dream catchers are the ultimate way to rejuvenate your self. Life’s short so why regret, move on and get a dream catcher and live life to the fullest.

Dreams! They have kept us alive. They are the only hope in our lives. From day dreaming to night dreaming, they come whenever they want and vanish within a fraction of seconds. Dreaming is the goal to success. If you don’t dream you cannot reach your desired goals. It’s fascinating and mesmerising. Dreams are the one which makes us live our life. Without dreams life would be hallow. Every one of us Dreams. Some dream to be big and some to gain big. Everyone has their own dreams. Some are negative and some are positive but the common thing is that we all dream. For no dreams, there is no life. You Dream once, live once, regret once, so rather than regretting dream and live your life. for only one dream can change your entire life. One dream can change your life, so DREAM, dream to live.

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