And you expect...

Expectations! That's one thing which can change your view towards anything in a fraction of second. But the truth always is it's far away from reality. Reality is something that exists but far away from expectations. Reality breaks a hope in a second. It's the sour truth we all run away from. It's what you want from someone. Reality is tangible and a phenomenon that cannot be changed. But a truth which we all run from.

Our minds know the palpability of the thing but our heart presumes everything and wants things to be done according to his way. Expectations are far from reality. They always make an image which our heart wants and overpowers the brain. It's always makes us believe which usually cannot happen.

The best way to avoid disappointment is not to expect anything from anyone. Irony is that you know what will be the answer from opposite side then too you keep an expectation, a hope that, that person will answer you the way you want. But when reality strikes, dreams shatters and you are broken into pieces. The sense of guiltiness and being ashamed on yourself of why expecting from someone who will probably never live up to your  expectations.

Never lower your self esteem for someone who is not giving a single damn to your feelings. Never expect from a hopeless person who is there just to manipulate you and use you until he/she is done with you rather got bored with you. HOPE RATHER THAN EXPECTING! because a hope makes you live and expectations kills you to such an extent that you cannot think of!

Once Bruce Lee said "I'm not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not in this world to live up to mine!" Follow this quote and world would be a better place to live in.

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Relationships

Relationships! What are they? Yes, that's a question everyone asks themselves. It has various meanings or say it it is defined by everyone according to their perspective. The way they feel. But what they really are?

Relationships are nothing but a BOND that two people hold. It's not about just being in a Love relation but it can be any, weather be it with your Mom, a relation which is the purest of all or you Dad, Sister, Brother Or any other family member OR a Friend!

Relationships defines us! If they did not existed then there is no meaning to a man's life. The feeling one holds for another is a relationship. That inclination towards anyone, that bond, that affection is a relation. Some relations cannot be defined but hold there own importance. Relations are very important to have in one's life because they make what we are, they judge what we are, they make us and they even destroy us. Sour relations can be healed only if there is a will to heal the scares from both the sides because one sided effort will do nothing unless the difference is not much.

Relationships are made by humans only. Making relationships is very easy but to survive them is not easy, it's what makes the relation strong. The best relations happens unexpectedly! Dont' let your ego ruin your relationship. SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOR THESE ARE THE ONE WHICH LET US LIVE AND MAKE US ALIVE. They are the only treasures one cannot loose in there whole lifetime. Let the Love for that relation flow and make it strong, be it your girlfriend, boyfriend, mom, dad, brother, sister or any other family member OR a Friend. The bond should be real and it's not an obligation to be it with your blood relations, it can be any! After All, it's the bond that keeps the relation alive. Give your hundred percent in a relation and solve your issues if there are any with your beloved one before it finishes it all.

Relationships keep us alive. They are the only hope in our life when things get sour! A relationship is worth it all if there is love and affection from both the side. RELATIONSHIPS ARE LIKE GEMS, very costly and rare to find. Value them for not everyone is bestowed with them. Consider yourself lucky if you even have a single relation which is just perfect because there are people who have everyone yet they don't have a single relation to be called as 'THERE's' ! VALUE YOUR'S!

Make a relation where a fight is worth because fights are the only signs that yes, you are in a relationship, in a happy relationship because fights gives you the right to have a right on your beloved! They are the reasons that enlighten the hope to live. RELATIONSHIPS ARE THE ONLY HOPE ONE CAN HAVE.

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