Expectations! That's one thing which can change your view towards anything in a fraction of second. But the truth always is it's far away from reality. Reality is something that exists but far away from expectations. Reality breaks a hope in a second. It's the sour truth we all run away from. It's what you want from someone. Reality is tangible and a phenomenon that cannot be changed. But a truth which we all run from.
Our minds know the palpability of the thing but our heart presumes everything and wants things to be done according to his way. Expectations are far from reality. They always make an image which our heart wants and overpowers the brain. It's always makes us believe which usually cannot happen.
The best way to avoid disappointment is not to expect anything from anyone. Irony is that you know what will be the answer from opposite side then too you keep an expectation, a hope that, that person will answer you the way you want. But when reality strikes, dreams shatters and you are broken into pieces. The sense of guiltiness and being ashamed on yourself of why expecting from someone who will probably never live up to your expectations.
Never lower your self esteem for someone who is not giving a single damn to your feelings. Never expect from a hopeless person who is there just to manipulate you and use you until he/she is done with you rather got bored with you. HOPE RATHER THAN EXPECTING! because a hope makes you live and expectations kills you to such an extent that you cannot think of!
Once Bruce Lee said "I'm not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not in this world to live up to mine!" Follow this quote and world would be a better place to live in.
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